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Keeping the balance

July 22nd, 2008. Published under Personal Life. 1 Comment.

Throughout the last 6 years of my life I have lived in several places in the Phoenix area and one place out of my home state. All of these moves has been a change environment and surroundings. All of which I have lost a couple nights sleep over to let my body adjust. I enjoy doing new things and going new places, it's just who I am. Recently I made the biggest change in my living situation. I have graduated from living in my room alone to living with a girl. This has been by far the biggest adjustment I have ever made. Before I could say that moving form place to place was no big thing, but living with someone you love and romance with is completely new and unusual. I'm not saying that I am not enjoying it, but rather that it is just a big adjustment. I enjoy waking up to her and enjoy living with her. My only concern is that a lot of the adjusting is being done by her. She moved far from home and sometimes I feel bad when I go hang with my friends because she has yet to have any out here yet. She has made friends with some of my friends which I thought to be great but in her case its just not the same as meeting someone new. I think the biggest thing is keeping the balance between her and my friends. I don't want to upset her in anyway, even though sometimes I feel I do. But at the same time I don't want to make my friends feel like I abandoned them for her. So all in all, the biggest adjustment is simply keeping the balance.